The story behind this photo is one of simple pleasures. When you live on almost three acres of land a riding lawn mower is a necessity not a luxury. Every once in a while if the weather was not too hot Mark would clean out the wagon that attached to the back of the mower. He would get the kids and give them a ride around the yard, taking care not to go too fast or hit too many bumps. As you can see by the looks on their faces Derric, Madison and Dallas loved it. It was like a tiny hayride in our own backyard...but without the hay, usually a blanket or towel to sit on.
The little fun things we used to do with our children gives me such peace. Knowing that we took the time to lay in the grass and watch the clouds go by. Or sitting on the big swing in our yard and talking or the hammock. We used to pretend to dance the tango down our very long hallway. Picnics in the living room when it rained were one of my favorites. I hope Derric and Dallas remember these little things and think on them with a smile. These memories always bring a smile to my face. I hope they know how much they are loved and have been greatly loved, their whole lives.
My unsolicited advice to anyone reading this, cherish the small moments. Sear them into your brain to think on when your children are no longer small. Take time to talk with your children, read to them and with them. Make up original stories to tell them at bed time. Lay on a blanket in the grass and watch the clouds go by. Play music loud and dance as a family together in the den. Do silly things together, make a million good little memories. They grow up so fast and these memories will bring you comfort.
These memories do bring me great comfort especially since there are no more memories to be made with Madison. Those stopped nine years ago today. I am so grateful that I still get to make new memories with Mark, Derric, Dallas, Noelle and Juliana and the new addition to our family Derric’s fiance’ Leslie. I am also happy that I can still say, I truly am a blessed woman. While today won’t be easy for those of us who knew and loved Madison, I take comfort from my sweet memories because not only do they make me cry they also make me smile.
